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A risk of being taken for a heavy, back again (for the third time in a week) to the present generated around Holy Thursday. Certainly, this you can attest, as an associate in the street gave me a special satisfaction the agreement reached between the Guilds Montesión and Exaltation, resulted in exchange of their positions on the agenda. I thought I had met a new form of understanding between brothers, since in recent years the general trend tends to come marked by disputes and disorders.

What was my surprise this morning when opening the mail of the Blog. There, a friend had been kind enough to leave me the link to the note published Montesión Big Brother, D. Mailbox Rafael López. After one look at first, just I have read more carefully, without leaving even amazement. And it's really hard to believe that between brothers, Catholics supposedly will show by both insults and threats as they are related in that statement.

decision (if not known please click on the links), ranked among the parties involved a trial, and yet to be endorsed (in the Council have not yet been delivered) is taking on dangerous overtones to become a schism that decoherence Brotherhood, the Montesión , which seems not stop leaving the period of tense calm in the living in since for some time. Presumably, and as specified, by mobile messages has gone so far to call all the brothers and sisters (Montesión) for Monday, August 31, at 9 o'clock at night, they arrive in units Brotherhood taking submissions from members of the Board of Governors. Loss fledged forms.

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Big Brother alludes in the text we refer to a series of reviews published in various media (newspapers and blogs mostly) that triggered this controversial initiative. Of course it is very easy to spread outrageous boast using new technologies as a tool, however it is not mandatory (much less) than the leaders, in this case members of governing boards, have to be on an unconditional obligation to modify their actions by it. Therein lies the ability to handle the charges .

continue the development of the facts to see if tempers subside or continue curling. For now, and according to previous subversive, a server prefers to be cautious about whether the agreement will be fruitful practice on Thursday saint or be diluted in water as opposed to nothing.

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* Related links: Swap place: reflection point http://noticiasmontesion.blogspot.com/2011/01/permuta-de-lugar-punto-de-reflexion.html ; Solutions Holy Thursday http://suspiroscofrades.blogspot.com/2011/01/soluciones-al-jueves-santo.html ; Agreeing on Holy Thursday http://suspiroscofrades.blogspot.com/2011/01/acordando-el-jueves-santo.html
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current widespread optimism that sails without turbulence, thanks to sensible agreements aimed at reorganizing the Holy Thursday , now all the voices say it's time, at least, make an attempt at consensus between the Brotherhoods the rest of the days most troubled times and routes in response to: Tuesday and Holy Wednesday . The first, nothing new, and second, apparently with intensity sounds a proposal that would aim to extend goal in 15 minutes the day in Official Race , dividing that time between The Thirst and The Marketplace (advancing the minutes that you give to the thirst delaying that give the Marketplace). They say that for next Tuesday for older siblings have been placed on Holy Wednesday seen, though perhaps not come all.

to find reasons to invite the Holy Wednesday rearrangement need not travel too in time. Time changes really begin the day early, just ahead of Bell Cruz Guide of San Bernardo . However, despite the fact that since the Brotherhood is considerable effort, the fact of presenting a huge host procession and walk in the footsteps of the Brotherhood of Thirst (which also has a large number of penitents) makes it extremely difficult to achieve established schedules. This situation occurred, for example, last Easter 2009 , motivating called "whiting effect" was made concrete in the fifteen minutes late entry accumulated by the Official Race Mystery Launched (fifth Brotherhood of the day), later to endorse the chaos with the half-hour break supported by the Nazarenes who came from San Pedro (Cristo de Burgos). Just take this example the thread led paradoxical situation, whereby three steps agreed at the Plaza del Duque: both the Christ of Burgos and the Nazarene of Divine Mercy in the Seven Words.

We face a good test for the willingness to contribute to the smooth operation of the Holy Week of Seville. It is therefore time to make ends meet current building of good intentions with which from Holy Thursday have given an example. Do not lose the opportunity now rubble has gestated, will be appearing soon from the Council with "brilliants" and the designs are poured down the drain. There will be attentive to the next week.

(Image from ABC Web Seville)

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* Related links: Holy Thursday Solutions http://suspiroscofrades.blogspot.com/2011/01/soluciones-al-jueves-santo.html ; According the Holy Thursday http://suspiroscofrades.blogspot.com/2011/01/acordando-el-jueves-santo.html
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José Antonio Martín Pereira

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In Hollywood, the time does not forgive ... women

In my series of symptoms of sexism, after the contest of the best tail summer: the difference between the standards of beauty and seduction for men and women, particularly in the cinema (where many boys and girls looking for models to be identified).

Wherever considered attractive women must be young, slender, without a wrinkle, without an ounce of fat, especially without a gray hair (it is considered that women who do not stain "left to be" ), the gallant suitors remain, as well explains this working Nation, approaching their 50 (George Clooney, 49 years) or even past 60 years (Richard Gere, 61), not to mention their 70 (Harrison Ford, 68, Robert Redford, 74 years).

Here they are, wrinkled, gray hair, with meat hanging and sagging, but yes, still getting leading roles of heroes, adventurers, gallants, and so on. Always accompanied by very young women, of course. As State of Play, in which Russell Crowe (46 years, overweight and disheveled) stars with Rachel McAdams (32 years old, skinny, beautiful, flawless). A fully accepted age difference. Of course, the rare Sometimes the woman is older than man, he says " cougar (puma).

These guys can gain twenty kilos that nothing happens. Now, Britney Spears fat five kilos and there is all the press calling it cow and showing off their rolls.

In Hollywood films, male viewers can identify with heroes who look like: fat, wrinkled and gray. Women have only unattainable models of thin actresses with stretched skin and no gray.

Women past 40 years, not only have to be impeccably colored and botox, but have to settle for minor roles (The place of the heroine is left to a younger) or older women, mothers or grandmothers.

"The best papers are those that make for men, those are the memorable," said Nicole Kidman last year.

actress Helen Mirren (65 years, ie, younger than Harrison Ford, who continue to trouser roles), has repeatedly complained of the sexism of Hollywood: "I resent the survival of some actors male very mediocre and professional demise of some very brilliant actresses, "he told Showbiz Spy (you can read the note in English here.)

Spike magazine published in 2009 the top 10 actresses passed Hollywood.que "expiration date." : Old decrepit? See for yourself: Nicole Kidman (43), Teri Hatcher (46) Drew Barrymore (35 years), Helen Hunt (47 years), Renée Zellweger (41), Lindsay Lohan, (24 years! ) Sarah Jessica Parker (45), Meg Ryan (49), Cameron Diaz (38 years), and Julia Roberts (43 years). No reach 50. Average age of these women, "Expired", 41.1 years.

So, to summarize past 40, no longer considered desirable, sexy and beautiful, when their male counterparts have 20 or 30 years to stop being so.

But I guess that will always be people to say that has nothing to do with sexism, it is simple matter of taste or money ...

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Can be sexist, homophobic and shout from the rooftops in a national newspaper? Ask Hanglin Rolando.

In my opinion, one of the most sexist, sexist and homophobic among Argentines called Rolando Hanglin .

This pseudo progressive (say it ever was), now spokesman for the most reactionary sector of the country, has a column in The Nation , Called "incorrect thoughts." As incorrect, they have absolutely nothing, since contrary, they follow the traditional current of machismo, racism and homophobia.

In one of his last columns, The Goddess and the pig , claimed that character loud and clear homophobia as a common "opinion" .

But not only that. The note, every note, from beginning to end (and it is long), is an anthology of sexism.

the beginning of the column, explains that women, in prehistoric times, were considered goddesses because they came out life:

"the first humans God was not God the Father: genitor-computer-operator of world-master of the word, dictator of the law and namer of things, primitive sperm owner and chief Solar life. No, perhaps the original god was it. The goddess, Great Mother of Heaven. "

And there comes the theory completely false but widely disseminated, that prehistoric women were in the cave tending to offspring:

"The man makes the tasks of the day : agriculture and war, forging metals, the planting of corn, hunting, domestication bull and stallion. Work sun. His metal is gold, light their surroundings, their time on . Instead, women's work is nocturnal and hidden : the child starts in the shadow of the uterus. His life is spent in the privacy of home, where he maintains ties within families. Seduce bed in the darkness of . Hidden the pregnancy develops in the shade. It works invisibly and secretly, of sync with the 30 days of the moon, the planet Venus, tides and water governing the changing mood of the woman . "

This is a big lie . The prehistoric women out not only to gather fruit, but also hunt small animals. Neither fart stayed in the cave . This is a totally biased and sexist of things we have wanted to believe for decades to justify that women stay at home cleaning, cooking and caring for vegan hijxs, while the men were going to build great things for humanity sunlight.

And incidentally, serves to justify the alleged emotional instability of women, with their "changing mood." But it's not her fault, eh, eye, poor, is because of the tides, for a reason that is not well understood, but some must have, only influence the mood of the women.

These are, for Hanglin, real women, women-goddesses. Places women on a pedestal, which is typical of the macho, they say "love" to women. The love, yes, but only if he adheres to his holy role of mother, selfless, sacrificing, sweet, a caretaker's home, her husband, her hijxs. If it comes out of that role, stand down immediately and becomes part of "feminist women"

"The feminist woman, from 1930 onwards, has claimed equal pay for equal work " What horror

... Who is he thinking?

"The true feminist indignantly rejects the courtesy of the man. Do not want compliments, compliments and obeisances. Capable of defending herself. want to go to war, thrive, work as the most , and requires man-to undertake their few skills, the adventure of raising children well. And wash the dishes, like her. This is another episode in the history of the two sexes (because there are only two sexes and are called, not gender) whose differences have diluted and threaten with extinction. "

Appreciate the "with few skills" and yes, that man should Hanglin stupid Neanderthal man, a man not to know, very stupid man, man unable to change diapers, be required to deal with baby PhD or wash dishes, read better man driving a car daily.

Hanglin And how sad regrets the good times when women were the maids and the whores of men

"She treasured in ancient times as one keeps a secret, the good things hard life of man: pleasure, kissing, caressing, dance, whisper, seduction, if-is-no-is a word to mean. All the beauty of a small ear, silky hair and a smile that lit up the planet.

(...) With the complicity of a judicial system entirely composed women (psychologists, secretaries, lawyers, judges, maids) robs us of our children, us out of our homes and labeled the "kickers", "infidels", "sexist", "abusive", "sexómanos" and "powerless" all at once "

Of course, men are not abusers and batterers. It's all in the imagination of feminists.

Also, I will have to explain something: the type recognizes that handles your hijxs, because that is up for women. But in case of divorce, are you saying you would favor joint custody? Milita Hanglin that parents are concerned with both their hijxs as mothers? Is not that contradictory to the above? Was not that the men were "low ability" when raising niñxs vegan? I think that this man knows not what he wants, except male preserve their privileges ...

"She has become our enemy, when he was our consolation. She was the other side of life. The sweet side. Now, you can make a man happy in a human wreck. In fact, do it constantly .

is, if you're a real woman if you want to Hanglin considered a goddess, you have to be sweet, selfless, sacrificial, condescending, gentle and submissive. If you want your independence, is going to hell that the woman-goddess ... I knew see us as goddesses that was not free ...

"The important thing is the woman as goddess. A body to be exquisite, 16 times thinner skin than men, lips swollen, melodious voice, the laugh that melts the stones, rounded hips and feet small, tiny pink tongue, perfumed in its essence, sweet as love, tireless in sex. " Women

stereotypical, impossible ... Of course it has to be small and fragile, so the man can protect, otherwise, why the hell they serve men, eh? A woman is necessarily small feet ... I guess the Japanese tradition awful bandaging the feet of girls to keep them from growing it seems the height of good taste ...

And what bad faith compares the body supposedly always beautiful women with the body supposedly ugliest man:

"While molding to her curves with Charlize Theron, outlined to him the Danny De Vito design. Cruel disparity between the sexes. In this particular, the operator was a bit stingy with us. "

Why Charlize Theron compares with Danny De Vito? Why not compare it with Brad Pitt or Jude Law?

Now, believe it or not, text worst is yet to come , and on homosexuals:

"Protagonists of this time, the male homosexual men want to" male "and cordially hate women. However, get their ID happy "female". Where once said "Carlos", have now written "Patricia". These are an avalanche. speak of themselves in women, threatening to marry and physical change (highly touted) is purely cosmetic. "

I will have to explain why gay men hate women, albeit cordially ... Does this mean that I, being heterosexual, I hate cordially women, because they do not attract me sexually? And another thing: if homosexuals want to become women, how is it that they like the "macho men"? If all homosexuals want to look like women, where are the males? But our subject is not afraid of contradictions, as we have seen ... And of course, happily confused homosexuality and transsexuality, but what can you do ... Nor can we ask for subtlety or culture ...

Well, he said, women should hate gay people for wanting to be like us:

"The women today accept that there are other women, perfectly equal to them. Although it is true, have testes and penises (one each) in healthy conditions. Although measuring six feet tall, fit 45, with wide waist and simian carota man, being in every way closer to "The Mole" Moli that Sofia Zamolo. "

Note that a woman can never measure a 45 feet tall and fit . A real woman is lower than men and have small feet, I said before, at least it is logical to himself ... It will not be a woman than a man in strength and height, heaven forbid and save us from these butch ...

And the poor is completely gone to hell when claiming homophobia as an "opinion" more:

"in November 2010, a gay parade in Copacabana suggested that homophobia was considered a crime. Again, crime of opinion, as in the happy days of the Holy Inquisition Hitler, Mussolini, Joseph Stalin and Fidel Castro. "

And ends:

"If you establish such laws, for example, this article would be considered a criminal act." Well dear

Hanglin, started shaking from your pedestal of manhood: YES Argentine law condemn homophobia, and your text being analyzed NOW by the National Institute against Discrimination, Xenophobia and Racism , which opened an office in this regard.

I would not want to be in place for vegan funcionarixs they have to analyze the content of this text. A text that does not doubt in his final sentence present domestic violence as a "variant of the human condition" that is "normal and legitimate" . And slides, incidentally, in the list of variants "normal and legitimate," a reference to pedophilia, citing "the teacher and the irresistible alumnita"

"Let's say, finally and above all to avoid further that homosexuality we are not listed as a disease, nor wickedness, nor a sign of the Apocalypse. It's a way the human condition. But the other variants of the human condition are also normal and legitimate . All types of comedy and life: The Don Juan and the digger, the bully and the widow hot, bookworm and the hypocrite, the athlete and the odalisque, the champion sexual and slutty girl, the shy, the drunk, the teacher and the alumnita irresistible, the millionaire and sexy secretary, a married man walk in the trap and the married eye make-up stewed. "

Anything else?

(remember that all that was not published Blog in a seedy, but in a major English language newspapers world. So it was supposed to be re-read, approved, validated by the direction of writing. And nobody seemed outrageous.)

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WHAT TO DO AND SAY IN FRONT OF OTHER PEOPLE PAIN?



In this post we propose some guidelines to know: What to do
who suffers the loss of a loved one? How
behave if we want to help those suffering from grief?

* Dedicated to our colleagues in the pain ...

When someone close loses a beloved, we say: "if you need me call me for whatever you need, for anything. "
Sure you say with your heart, but the first thing we know is that those who have suffered a great loss not only will have no power for help.

" we really think and believe that someone immersed in the greatest of sadness, not wanting to live, you can pick up the phone or go to your door to say "I need you"?

must therefore assume that you must take the initiative . To help a person suffering we should show understanding and love. Do not expect to come to us.
tend to think that the loss must be overcome quickly and without any help, but really not.
The burden of pain is more bearable bear many more behind him and help him cope.
not limit ourselves to say: "If there's something to do ..." Find that "something" for himself, and then, if appropriate, take the initiative.

But what to do ... say ... how to help who are suffering so much?

ACCOMPANY:
-Hold hand caressing her cheek ... ... and give all the support that we need physically, emotionally and spiritually.
"Do not stay away from not knowing what to say or do. Too often we are scared, fearing that produces the pain we see and make us think,
"It is better to leave now ... They need to be alone ..." Perhaps
to stay away because we fear saying or doing an inconvenience, but if we avoid being with the bereaved feel more alone and misunderstood. Our mere presence can inspire courage.

SERENA:
-Adopt a restful air.
-soothe with loving words and gentle gestures.
-tolerant admit the possible manifestations of anger, rage, crying, or any outbreak of contradictory feelings and emotions.
-Stress as often as necessary that it is normal to feel in that state of confusion and anxiety, insisting that they are not going "crazy" and that all these strange feelings and virulent it is, is normal given the situation they are living.

LISTEN ENABLE AND PROMOTE ITS RELIEF:
"It's very important for the bereaved to feel that they share your pain. Let them express
-free and listen is essential and a good way to relieve his pain.
"Maybe they need to talk about your loved one, how the accident or illness, what happened or what you feel in those moments.
"On the contrary there are people who have difficulty speaking and expressing their feelings.
It is best to decide for themselves without having to feel obligated to "behave" in a certain way.
-not pressure them to stop mourn, on the contrary, let her cry and they can let off steam.
"No fear they dump us. Be patient and understanding.
"It's a big mistake to believe that we must avoid referring to the deceased as it is very painful for someone in mourning, to check that even nominate your loved one, do not talk about it or try to avoid the conversation.
-Contrary to popular belief, is very gratifying to hear the suffering qualities, details and gestures that would make living with them their loved one.

understanding:
-Never say: "I know how you feel"
Do you really know? How
include, for example, what parents feel when a child dies if you have not experienced the same loss? ... And even if you have experienced, be aware that not everyone reacts the same way.
"A person who has experienced the same loss, can greatly help one in the same situation, so I could comfort the bereaved, to know how she overcame the loss of telling his story and let someone else draw their own conclusions. AVOID

phrase:
"Life is God "..." "..." I wanted and left to suffer" ... "You have other children, husband, etc "..." have a life before you have another child "..." "..." "..." No more torment you have to try and forget '...
"This kind of sentences usually cause more pain confusion and even anger and indignation! Avoiding pronouncing and if we do not know what to say, better not say anything and use nonverbal communication (a hug, a look, a gesture ... or share quiet times). This type of communication will show understanding and feel that someone is concerned about them and their family.

OFFER IN ALL WE CAN:
-There is a unique way to help solve some of us can do procedures and paperwork, others in household chores, visiting and staying at his side if desired, especially on key dates (anniversaries, Christmas, holiday ...), sharing activities that gratify or any other manner be useful.
"Do not get much time to be alone, while respecting the desired lonely moments and fill in the emptiness of their possible loss.

TAKE THE INITIATIVE, IF NECESSARY:
"People in grief often so immersed in their pain, it prevents them from having enough capacity to face execution or decision of certain matters or procedures. Stunning may lead to not knowing what to do, let alone take care to others, so they need someone to make decisions for them.
"Always with the appropriate caution if there are things we do do it! take the initiative. It is better to decide to ask things are obvious.

EASY TO AVOID GIVING ADVICE OR IMMEDIATE SOLUTIONS:
-bereaved people are at a crucial time in their lives and need more than ever, love, comfort and support from family and friends. They are so hurt
morally, mentally, physically and espiritualmante are not sufficient capacity to make decisions, especially if the death occurred suddenly and accidentally, terrorism, or have been missing some time.
"In many cases the bereaved will need some time to absorb the loss of a loved one and we should not harass or sue with advice to take hasty decisions. Everything must go by solving some little, there will be time for it!.
"I never tell them to get rid of clothing or other personal effects of deceased. Nor do they have to get rid of objects that they remember because they prolong or cause more distress.

OTHER FORMS OF ASSISTANCE:
-Being generous and hospitable inviting home to travel ... May reject the offer for fear of losing control of his emotions in front of others.
also may not seem like a good company to enjoy such moments. In any case you have taken the first step and the mourners will appreciate the sense that they are not alone and that someone thinks of them.
-Write a letter, poem or card comfort ... People who have gone through a painful loss have reported that they helped a lot to receive any writing or letters from friends and family. Can be composed of a few words of comfort, but should be written from the heart.
-Help them to begin the task of writing a newspaper, book or even a blog to help you express your pain and remove the outside.
Maybe we should take this thing one day write ........ W. Shakespeare
"Sorrow concealed, like a closed furnace, burn the heart to reduce it to ashes"


* Written based on input from our own experiences and with the collaboration of:
-SPANISH SOCIETY OF CARE PALLIATIVE. AMAD Association
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-Foundation live without VOS (Argentina).
-Alain Giacchi.

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The tail of the summer, another sign of sexism

As every year, is organized in Mar del Plata Bikini Open, organized by a surf brand items, which selects "the best tail summer."

In a podium, dozens of top and thong girls show their attributes as if they were in a slave market, or the butcher . They are no longer human beings: are lines with a number.

I know, I will say, no one forces these girls to participate in that contest.

But what is critical here is not the participation of girls, victims of a system that encourages women to stand up for your body. How can a 19 year old girl, which probably raised by encouraging their beauty and form, in a society that encourages women to be a beautiful object, you can have the strength of character to reject that model?

No, girls do not criticize them: I sympathize. And yes critical to the system. This contest is a symptom of how sexist is our society.

And also challenged the brand that is organized, and cares not show women as pieces of flesh and sex objects, so to become known. And criticize all the media who took up, all without exception, the images of these lines shown as the backs of cows, and who do they care to participate in the denigration of women, so to sell more.

In fact, today, the American Professional Group / as Power Abuse filed a complaint against the company and against all media covering the event.

"This contest degrading to women, calling for a part of your body and constitute an act of sexual violence and advocacy of crime , framed in sociological worst patriarchal society.
Rxxx (*) incurs violation of the LAW 24685 COMPREHENSIVE PROTECTION FOR THE PREVENTION, PUNISHMENT AND ERADICATION OF VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN IN THE AREAS IN WHICH DEVELOP THEIR RELATIONSHIPS, in its articles 2), 5 °) inc 5 and 6) (symbolic violence and the media).
All media dealt with the story and published photos of the contest, which is borderline pornography, in violation of the LAW OF COMMUNICATION SERVICES 26522 AUDIOVISUAL.

(*) I refuse to mention the brand, to avoid more publicity of it deserves.

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Clitoris: a feminist magazine Argentina

A new feminist magazine has been born in Argentina: Clitoris magazine. For now, just get online, and the number zero can be downloaded by clicking on the image . Hopefully soon we can buy at newsstands.

can also read more about this magazine here.

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What is sexism? Why do I see everywhere? Status quo

Few people know what I mean by sexism, sexist system, people sexist.

Many people believe that sexism is simply thinking that men are superior to women, macho men are batterers and rapists, and end point.

Then, of course, say: "I'm not sexist because I'm not kicker or rapist, you see sexism everywhere, you're paranoid, if you say that men are sexist is because you see in every man a potential rapist ".

So, let's (and I recommend strongly to read the links I give for a better understanding of what I explain.)

First, never said that "men" are sexist . Some men are. Some women also. Not all. Not all. Although most do, in my opinion, it is true (most men and most women, clarified).

Then, the term "machismo", I prefer the word " sexism."

Let

. What, then, sexism? Why do I say that most people, men and women are sexist?

Stated very simply, sexism is the differentiation of people into two sexes are very different from each other, which is attributed to well-defined qualities or defects. is the idea that what determines the psychological biological : you have a whistle, then you have to like this and that and act in certain ways. You have vulva (though usually not say "you have vulva" but "you have no dick" ), then you have to like those other things and act in those other ways.

If instead of "sexism," talk about "racism" is best understood . Racism is considered that human species is divided into several races (black, white, etc..), and assign to each race certain qualities or defects. Many times, extends not only to race, but ethnicity: blacks are stupid, Jews are greedy, Argentines are thieves, the French smell bad, etc.. etc. Needless to say, "you have to kill all blacks" to be racist. The mere fact of believing that all blacks are this or that way by nature (although it is a good thing) and make such distinction, discrimination between skin types, and shows a latent racism, subway, but this , which is thought to skin color or ethnic origin cause that people are this or that way by nature.

not need to say: "Jews to the camps" to be anti-Semitic. Anti-Semitism begins when you say "Jews only think of money" or "Jews are all greedy" because they generalize qualities or defects of some individuals to all members of a group, without taking into account the individuality of each one.

with sexism, same thing happens, only that humanity is divided into two : all men on one side, all the women on the other. And each group is attributed to individual strengths and weaknesses: men are violent, women are sweet; Men are good at math, women are good communicators, men can read a map, the women can take care of babies, the men change the wheels of a car, women change diapers, etc..

That's sexism, ie differ by sex (also called essentialism : think that people are so and so in essence ). Or put another way, discriminate by sex.

What is wrong with that?

Well, the fact that binary thinking that way can lead to more discrimination problematic. For example, if the person is head of business and must choose between two candidates most likely to be guided by these stereotypical beliefs about the sexes and between two candidates based their choice on the sex of the candidate and not on their real capabilities. For example, for a job in a kindergarten, elect to prepare a woman, without even bothering to check if the man is better qualified or better qualities for the job. The same, for a position in leadership is needed, choose the man, beyond the real powers and possibilities of each.

is, think the fact that sex necessarily have an influence on behavior and, above all, always has the same kind of influence can lead to discriminatory actions.

Who is sexist?

Well, as I said, almost all . Not evil, not voluntary. Not that people wake up one day and think: "OK, today I will be sexist because I'm very very screwed up."

is the system that is sexist and that makes what we are individuals too. We are born into this system, we are created in this system, and we can not criticize or question the good and simple reason nosotrxs most do not realize their existence: believe that these qualities and defects attributed to each sex are natural, are the essence of what is "being a man" or "being woman" . Or question these powers, and we are afraid that someone comes and says: "Look, things are not so by nature, not its real nature, we impose the cultural, social, because then our whole system is crumbling , and we have to rethink humanity zero. I understand that panic, and people reject it.

So sexism is not just domestic violence or rape . Sexism is also favoring a woman in a position in a kindergarten for the mere fact of being a woman, without ever seeing the qualifications of a potential male candidate.

Sexism is a child not to cry because that is a child.

Sexism is routinely give dolls to little girls and boys manly toys.

Sexism is that male or female models that television, advertising, posters, stories, films, etc. proposed to be stereotypical vegan niñxs.

Sexism is to decree to change a car wheel is male, and change diapers, women.

Sexism is decreed that some things are for boys, and some other for women.

Sexism is choosing to put a half naked woman on a billboard to sell yogurt.

Sexism is to show stereotypes in advertising, propagating stereotypes.

And all contribute, in turn, to the perpetuation of sexism. So I say that this is a system and must be attacked by all sides at once : not only combat fenónemo of violence or rape, but to modify the entire root system, changing education mentalities. Nothing will take action against violations if we do not change the system somehow, attests to the fact that many men are created with the right to speak on women's bodies (ads that are in that sense idea that when a woman says "no" actually means "yes", laughs when a child up the skirt of a girl instead of explaining that's wrong, impunity for men who harass women with compliments , etc.).

And so I see sexism everywhere: because this division of human beings into two categories (male and female) permeates absolutely all areas of society.

In this system, we both victims and accomplices .

why it is so hard to fight that system, because their victims are those that encourage ( women included) because they are unaware of its existence. We are so immersed in the system that we are unable to see it. You need something or someone to open our eyes .

I opened my eyes a feminist forum (which, unfortunately, no longer exists) that involved dozens of people, men, women, heterosexuals, homosexuals, psicólogxs, sociólogxs, teachers, students, desocupadxs, amxs home, ingenierxs, journalists, in short, everything. I arrived there with the idea that sexism to me did not affect me, who had never been a victim of machismo, he had managed to pass through their claws, and that people who wrote about sexism exaggerated and were very paranoid. It took a lot of work for my noticing awareness of reality.

Many people believe that by talking about equality, let's clear the differences between human beings and we want a uniform society. Women should be women, and men, men, they say.

Without realizing that they promote a society binary, that there are only two kinds of people, and nothing else. But I, in my struggle against sexism, not that I want one class of people, not that I want everyone to be like men or that all women be like: I six billion people classes, a class for an existing person in the world, because I think each individual is a world apart (each person is an endangered species, said one commentator here, because each is unique and unrepeatable). So, which promotes the differentiation of individuals I am. I do not want to put people into two boxes, male or female.

I want each person to find their own way, their own individuality, and if that happens to break the mold, and that a woman chooses to be a male mechanic and master gardener, then perfect .

And besides, as many people said before me: "The opposite of equality is not difference.'s Inequality."

why it is that not believe in the "difference feminism" . Because we still circling the sexist stereotypes that have taken centuries to get rid and represent a backlash , a going back, great.

But this post is already long so I will develop another about feminism of equality vs. difference feminism on another occasion.